Last week, I sent my 16 year old to Peru for 12 days on a
mission trip. The missionaries were
asked to bring clothes and home goods for the families they would helping while
there. We gathered a number of things for
her to take to with her, then the question, what bag should they go in, because
that bag would have to stay. (With their
in-country travel, only one bag was allowed, so that one would be a leave
behind.) The only one that made sense is
a bag that has been in my life for years.
Yes, its an old duffel bag looking thing I received from my
then boyfriend. Because I was a college
athlete, that bag was packed, unpacked and repacked many times, even in a
week. Imagine what that bag saw and did
in my four years as a college athlete? The
miles, the wins, the losses (although not many of those) the pep talks the @#$ chewings
from my coaches and all the fun. The hours
it spent on a cold bus, a smelly locker room and shoved in the bottom of my
closet waiting for its next call to action can never be calculated.
Then I settled into my career life and it made many a road
trips then too. A weekend adventure to
see friends in Bismarck, a fishing tournament (where I don’t recall ever
dropping a line in the water) with girlfriends and a spontaneous trip to Winnipeg
or two just to name a few. Suffice it to
say, that bag has done me well over the years.
Now, the bag is on a new adventure. It will have a new home, a new owner and based
on its still amazingly good condition, it just might help someone else make new
memories. It might be used for work, for
play, for sports, for storage…who knows!
The joke, when my daughter left, was that I might miss the bag more than
her. That is certainly not the case! I did, however, feel that after over 20
years, is deserved a special send off.
Like everything in life, time comes to make changes and it
was time for this happen and it was all for a good reason. To whomever is the recipient of this small
part of my life, enjoy it, because I know I sure did! With a new bag and praying for my daughters
safe return, I keep going!